Apparently it wasn't just me. It is rude. Thanks for the info. Maybe this can turn into a 'stupid and annoying things my co-worker/roommate does' blog. Maybe it can start by her NOT DOING MY JOB or NOT DOING THINGS I SAID I AM GOING TO DO and AM IN THE PROCESS OF DOING. Or maybe it is not airing other people's personal problems in crude and vulgar ways. Or maybe, when there are specific procedures for specific problems, they are there for a reason and should be followed.